Annie Fox for Teens... Hey, Terra!

Hi there… How’s it going? Probably not all that great or you wouldn’t be here looking for help. No worries. Teens have been emailing me since 1997 because I give good advice. If you’ve got a problem with friends, so-called friends, a bf/gf, a parent, or anything else… email me. I can help you sort out your feelings. No matter what’s going on, you always have choices. And choices matter because sometimes the stuff we do to “fix” a problem only makes things worse. You don’t want to go there. Instead, let me help you figure out your next best move

In friendship,
Terra (aka Annie Fox)

From Terra’s Inbox

“I feel guilty about what I let my gf do.”

 

“I hate a lot of stuff that a lot of people do.”

Hey Terra,

I was with my girlfriend one night, and she asked if she could give me oral sex. I finally let her do it, and it felt really good. Now, I'm a normal, church going type of guy, and have a lot of guilt about the whole situation.

What should I do?

Desperately

 

Hey Terra,

I hate it when people ask "Can I ask you a question?" I hate when people butt into my business. I hate when I'm in a movie and there is one person who has to make a comment about everything that happens. I REALLY hate it when adults treat me like I am 2 years old! I hate it when people talk with their mouths open. I hate babysitting for kids that are brother and sister, because all they do is come crying to me about how much they hate each other! I hate it when I go to my grandma's house and she makes me take the nastiest cough syrup in the universe just because I cleared my throat. I hate...

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Annie’s Blog:
A question of broken trust

March 28, 2017

At 36% approval rating, Trump is at a historic low for a POTUS in office less than 100 days. People don't trust the guy, for lots of good reasons. Consequently, I've been focused for months on what's going on in our government. Blogging about anything but politics feels less important than being part of the resistance. Of course, I'm still responding daily to teen email from around the world, as I've done for the past 20 years. For teens, there are no political crises. What threatens a teen's world is an upended peer relationship. Nothing catastrophic on a national or global scale, but still deserving of compassion and attention.

Like this one:

Without trust all sense of safety is gone. Without trust all sense of safety is gone.

Teen: I used to be friends with these boys until I started bullying them. I'd make fun of them everyday, move their stuff, occasionally resort to violence. I did it to feel in control. I don't do it any more and I want to be friends with them again. My best friend is now friends with them and I'm jealous. One of the boys ignores me and sometimes says rude things to me. On one hand I did the same sort of thing to him, but on the other hand, I hate it and I don't want him to end up being mean to everybody, because of how I treated him. More »


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